Is busy.
I work 40-45 (occasionally +) hours a week. Derek works roughly 30-35 hours a week. It is all well and good, because we are mostly at work during the same time. But there have been some changes....
First of all, there has been a new addition to our family.
We bought our first car. Literally a car. I know, i own a car. (my whole life i've been taught cars are evil death traps), nevertheless, we own a honda civic. It's great! it gets 40 mpg on the highway and is a manual. What more could i ask for? it has cloth seats, a cd player that works, nice trunk space, a new engine, the benefits of this car go on and on. But i still drive the truck cuz my work is closer. yay! Her name is Rosie. (She is a lesbian. Her former owner striped her down and drove her like a race car, hence the new engine etc. so she's been used and abused by men, and has racing pedals (manish) so we decided she's a lesbian. and is named after Rosie O'donnal.)
Other changes. These haven't been to the marriage, but in my work.
I am doing an internship at Westridge Academy. It is a residential treatment center for at risk youth. It is really great. This past week (Monday morning-10 pm last night (thurs)) we went on Parent Retreat. It is a chance for the parents and kids to reconnect and have fun together.
Schedule of events:
Monday: leave Westridge at 9 - 9:30 am, arrive in Green River around 2 pm, set up camp etc.
(the scheduling for the groups is the same. We did the same thing 3 times in a row)
4 pm: students and parents begin to arrive, get to know them etc. 5:30 pm dinner. 6:30 pm therapeutic games - this is where what we do best kicks in. We played games and used them as therapy and there were some major break throughs with the parents and the kids (esp. the girls). The kids felt how the parents feel/felt, and understood their actions affect more than just themselves, the parents started learning to trust their children. it was awesome!
After that was campfire/dessert/games (big booty, screaming viking, and ninja)
Next morning - breakfast and rafting the daily section of the green river! it was awesome! it felt SO GOOD to be back on the water in a raft again. oh my goodness. it was so cold the first day and i didn't care. Next day nice and warm. last day beautiful. perfect. i was on an open faced kayak and then we did another run just the staff and eli's family once all the kiddies left. 1 man duckie baby! so fun!
then we went home. it took an abnormally long time because....the trailer popped off the hitch whilest we were driving. popped off going over a cattle guard. luckily, we were only going around 35 mpg. few. practically no damage. don't ask me how. but we got that all fixed - creatively. we were feeling blessed. so i worked 84.5 hours this week and john gave me today off. yay!